Men are known to have their small secret area where they take refuge as soon as they have a problem, either to think rested or because they have a thought that they prefer not to share. But this small shelter fuels the curiosity of women who try by all means to know what happens there. In this article, we will allow you ladies to take a small indiscreet glance. Discover the 10 things that men hide from their wives!
10 things that a man hides from his wife:
1 – He still wants to be 25
Although he is currently more mature and his physical appearance is still admiring glances from the fairer sex, a man will always think with a touch of regret at 25 years. This does not mean that he will leave you for a bimbo of several years his junior or that he will integrate a band of Rock, but the knowledge will help you a little better understand when he comes happy with his latest acquisition : an original CD of his favorite youth band or a leather jacket decorated with nails.
2 – He’s terrified when you’re driving
Men generally love women who are healthy and confident, but when it comes to driving at the wheel, they become quite reluctant. Despite all their efforts to believe in you, they are reduced to a mass of trembling flesh as soon as you turn the ignition key. It is only their diplomatic side that prevents them from confiding to you that they feel like a crash test dummy, every time they pass on the passenger side.
3 – He does not understand – often – what to talk to you
Women often take the time to reconsider their relationship and analyze it, and do not hesitate to share their findings with their companion. However, the latter, even if he nods in approval and he says you understand, this is not the case! Not because of lack of will, but rather because the area of the brain that he will use to understand is already used to store information about his hobbies, favorite sports and latest car models!
4 – He will lie to you to avoid arguments
The lie, even if it comes from a good intention is not the best thing to do. However, men sometimes use it to calm the tense atmosphere of their relationship with their partner or to avoid an argument. They will pretend to agree or they admit their wrong to not see you riding on your big horses!
5 – He likes to be mother but would not want you to look like his mother
Do not we often hear that men are souls of children hidden in adult bodies? It is true that our big babies like to be cuddled, pampered and forgiven every time they derail, they are however anxious to be faced with a copy of their mother. Even if they have an infallible love for her, she always keeps a spectrum of authority, a bit … castrator!
6 – He has a pretty delicate self-esteem
Some men have no trouble admitting their faults or laughing at them, their ego remains a red line not to approach. Very sensitive on this point, many men need to be reassured and to know that they are, in the eyes of their women, the best partners and the most successful lovers. If ever they doubt their importance in the couple, their ego takes a big hit!
7 – Sometimes he just wants you to shut up
The communication skills of men and women are different because their brains are organized in two distinct ways. Men tend to be less inclined to talk and put words on their feelings, so that the effort they provide to do it in the office exhausts all their energy. That’s why, when they come home, they usually have only one desire: to enjoy a soothing and restful silence.
8 – He is afraid of commitment, even after taking the plunge
Men are not all the same, that’s why we find those who kneel down to ask for the hand of their darling and promise him love and fidelity for eternity … and others! Those who do not stop collecting conquests and playing Don Juan modern times. Moreover, to admit that they will, sooner or later, to “cram”, takes them a few years or even decades.
9 – He has sexual fantasies
Do not ask him, he will deny! And even if he admits it, he will never tell you what kind of fantasies go through his head. Do not take it badly, because it is a normal phenomenon – women also have their little unacknowledged fantasies – but moreover, his desire to keep them secret comes rather from his fear of being misunderstood, or worse malpractices.
10 – He also has his own fears
Beneath their iron carapace and their outward appearance of men of steel, men are also afraid, but excellent in the art of concealing it! So, even if he has a heart that beats at the sight of a spider, or if he has tears in his eyes just thinking that he may one day lose a loved one, he will post an impassive face and bury his emotion in the depths of his being.