“Am I interested? “
Sometimes we feel it, sometimes it is more difficult to decipher what the other person really thinks. Especially when he sends us signals completely incoherent.
To know how to calibrate your seduction and not hope for what it can not give you, learn to recognize the signs that do not deceive.
Is he interested in you? Is it just physical or does it project into a future relationship with you? To find out, it’s here.
1) It is available to you. A man who is interested in you will always find time to take his phone to answer your messages. Even better, he will sometimes be the first to send it to you. He will regularly offer you to see you, and will always find a time slot for you, even if his week is completely filled. Why ? Because if he has no time, he will create some for you.
2) He takes your news. He will not just send you messages on the weekend in the middle of the night, to tell you everything he wants to do in a bed. No. He will try to find out if you are well, what you have done in the week or just wish you a good day.
3) He offers you trips outside his bed or yours. A man who is interested in something other than physically will seek you to get to know you. He will invite you to dinner, offer you to go to the movies, or any other outing that does not start at his front door and ends with a kissing the next morning.
4) It shows you signs of affections in public. A man in love or in the process of becoming so is proud to show up with his partner. He will take your hand in the street or give you a kiss to say goodbye to you at the subway entrance. The degree of this affection will depend on how comfortable he is with being in public.
5) He asks you questions about you. Because you intrigue him, he will seek to know who you really are behind the physical that he likes so much. It will be really interesting to know what you do in life, the hobbies you have or the number of brothers and sisters you have. He will listen attentively to the answers and will bounce back on the subject by also opening up on his side, instead of cutting off the answers and returning to the eternal subject of sex. Plus sign that shows that a man is potentially looking to get in a relationship with you, he assesses your compatibility. It will not be enough to ask you if you are single. Neither seen nor known, it will ask you if you are someone faithful or if you already had long relations in the past.
6) He compliments you not just physically. He also tells you that he loves your personality, your way of seeing life, your laughter, the way your eyes squint when you smile. In fact, he likes everything at home, or almost.
7) He talks about you. You somehow shaken his life and in his redundant daily bachelor, he did not expect … you. He needs to share his excitement, his doubts, his hopes with someone. His closest friends then know that you exist even if you have never met them, and even better, they know what your name is. You are not “a girl with whom he has”, now you are that girl.
8) He is careful not to hurt you. He cares about what you can feel and is careful not to hurt you. It will sometimes be awkward or you may be hurt but it will not be voluntary and always with regret.
9) He introduces you to his loved ones. He wants to make you a place in his life but he also wants to show his friends the pearl on which he fell. He assumes you completely and is not afraid of the “formalization” that involves presenting someone to his friends or his entourage.
10) He will think before he wants to sleep with you. That does not mean that there will be no sex between you the first night. This means that he will not put any pressure on you, even if he takes the necessary time. He will make sure that you are sure you want to do it, that you are comfortable with him and that you will not regret your decision. In spite of his unconscious that he blows to undress you right away.
11) He speaks of “you” in the future. And plan to see you soon the appointment started. He is already imagining what you will do together next holiday. It is projected short and long term.
12) He has a particular way of looking at you. It is said that the look is the mirror of the soul and I can only confirm it. A man in love has this way of looking at you. It’s not a simple look, it devours you. So, he is too intimidated and can not even look you straight in the eye, or on the contrary, he can not look at anything other than you. And here girls, it’s won! : ^)
Be careful however to some pitfalls:
- Jealousy is not the sign that he loves you. He may not want anything with you and for all that, can not bear to see you cooing with someone else.
- A man who wants to sleep with you can do a lot of things for you. How many have been willing to walk for miles, to leave their homes at any time of the night, whether it is raining or snowing to be able to spend the night with me? The reality is such that a man can be incredibly kind, make good promises or lift the moon just to sleep with you. So it’s not because he’s ready to cross the city to find you he loves you.
In the end, I think that in the majority of cases, we feel when a man really cares about us. And when we have doubts, constantly find excuses for his lack of attention to us, it is that deep down, we know that he does not really love us.
How do you know if a man is really interested in you?