Love is one of the emotions that life invites us to feel every day, sharing it with others, helping or loving those around us….
It is also accepted by all that we are taught, socially, that love is directly related to a relationship.
And we are told that if we do not live this experience, we will never be able to feel what to love, and be happy.
This construction prevents many people from living their lives because we tend to follow social guidelines, imposed unconsciously.
We think that because we do not have a relationship, we are weird or simply, we have nothing to contribute to others, we lack qualities to share.
If we do not have a spouse, we immediately think that we are not happy.
It is obvious that to love and to feel loved is an experience that brings us great personal fulfillment and beautiful sensations, based on unconditional love.
This allows us to gain experiences in which we share, respect and accept. Which is indispensable.
But we must know that before that, to properly manage the relationship, it is important to mature, to find a personal balance, in solitude. Vital and necessary.
“The worth of a man is measured by the amount of loneliness he is able to bear.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche-
As you know, we like to give you advice to deal with certain situations.
So today, we are going to present you with 3 reasons to be happy when you are not in a relationship.
You have more concentration to grow
Before continuing, we must tell you that we can also enjoy these benefits when we are in a relationship.
But we will be a little more specific about the emotions that we live when we are “alone”.
Not having to use multiple energies to understand and deal with the needs of the other person allows us to focus better on ourselves.
That is, not having a spouse allows us to focus more on ourselves and our needs.
Not having a spouse allows you to have time for yourself, and to enjoy these emotions lived alone to solve problems that disturb your body and soul.
In this way, when someone appears, you will have realized the tasks that, as we told you before, must be done alone, to really mature.
You have more time to realize your dreams
It is clear to become the best version of ourselves and to enjoy life, we must know what enriches our soul, and makes us shine.
For that, we need time to carry out a real self-discovery and define “where we want to go and what we want to achieve”.
Not having a relationship gives us better moments to do what we love because we have more energy to focus on ourselves.
Being in a relationship sometimes makes us focus excessively on each other’s needs.
We tend not to spend time because we are with each other, and we leave out our dreams and goals.
Being single should not be perceived as something positive because it is a perfect step to be yourself thoroughly, to achieve what you want with serenity, to get closer to our ideal.
Take advantage of this experience to mount a plan of action and finally start touching the stars.
It’s the best time to discover your strengths and learn to love yourself
Emotional loneliness invites us to become aware of who we are and why we are alive, what is our mission and one of the most beautiful experiences of life: discovering our personal potentials.
It is obvious that, socially, we are much to believe that to feel fulfilled, we must find our “half”. And that would make us complete, in terms of soul and heart.
In this situation, think of everything you have around you. And when the love of your life appears, share it all with the heart.
Take this step to increase and work on your self-esteem and bring out the beauty of your interior.
Remember that people who are in a relationship are not necessarily happy, and especially that they are not happy just for that.
We must remember the importance of not depending on others, because otherwise, we only live toxic relationships in which we are not happy.
“Solitude is the heritage of all extraordinary souls.”